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Is it possible to make features in my menus such as text boxes and list boxes or do I have to find some way to to integrate the .net framework into the c++ part of love 2d?

Hello rob1242, welcome to the LÖVE forums.

There are several user interface libraries for LÖVE, you may want to have a look to the wiki:
https://love2d.org/wiki/Graphical_User_Interface

And to the awesome LÖVE list:
https://github.com/love2d-community/awesome-love2d#ui

there are no out-of-the-box gui controls. The best part about love is you learn to make your own or use some one else's library.

It is possible to make menus, text boxes, list boxes, any other graphical element... if you code it or use a library. Integrating in .NET isn't the way you want to go down on though.