A lot of this has been said, but...
I think that this is a reasonable request to LOVE library authors; nothing less, nothing more. I think that the OP simply wanted to request that people give their libraries more...professional (family-friendly?) names, so as not to discourage anyone from using LOVE or recognizing it as a serious contender. As the OP said, he's "not attempting to police the community," it's "just a friendly request."
As far as gender...why assume that library names like "AnAL" and "SECS" would turn off female programmers any more often than they would turn off male programmers? Most (all?) of the library names are pretty gender-neutral, after all. And who says that you need to be a "single male" to get a chuckle out of these sorts of juvenile jokes? I suppose that I just don't see library names like those as inherently "male" or chauvinistic names.
As far as encouraging female programmers - I agree! Though to have a strong female userbase, I think that we need one or two female users active in the community first and that it will naturally balloon out from there. After all, PyLadies and RailsGirls weren't started by men (at least I assume not). Until then, I think we simply need to be friendly to everyone. I'm pretty new to the community, but it seems like we already
are friendly to everyone, women included. There's nothing anti-female about LOVE or its community AFAIK. In fact,
if we're going to look at gender stereotypes, I would think that LOVE would be
more attractive to women considering the "girly" name and the rainbows and such
But seriously, it doesn't really seem like the LOVE community is one that would scare off any programming or game design minority groups. So, I say let's just keep doing what we do...be nice to everyone and, if there's an interest, they'll come. And who knows, maybe some females are already here? This forum doesn't really discourage anonymity, so they
could be here. And if they
are here and do want to be anonymous, then it's no surprise that they wouldn't be revealing themselves in this thread