turns out i made a mistake in my firewall rules, sorry guys

thats what i though so i changed the server to listen on my lan ip (192...) and the client tries to connect to my internet ip, but its not working

im trying to get an enet server to work but i dont have a lot of experience with networking im not gonna provide any code since its pretty much just the example @ https://love2d.org/wiki/lua-enet when i use localhost for server and client and run both on my pc everything works fine to get it to work...